It’s interesting to see how certain shows become iconic, and resonate with audiences in many ways. I’ve always been a fan of course of shows and movies, and it’s key to be on top of things when it comes to pop culture, especially for social media and public relations.
So, I have to say I am a bit late to the bandwagon for the show Ted Lasso, starring Jason Sudeikis. Ted Lasso, as Sudiekis says in this Guardian article, is a vibe. The show just started it’s second season on Apple+, so I had a bit of catching up to do.
I had heard some great things about the show, and I had Apple+ already b/c I got a new desktop for my home office, so I thought – why not?! I watched the first season, and I realized why my friends and colleagues raved about the show.
What are some lessons we can take from Ted and apply to our classes? Here are some things to consider from takeaways I’ve had from the show and how we can apply them in our work:
Kindness doesn’t cost a thing, but can leave a lasting impression. I am a big believer in this, and in the show, Ted brings his boss biscuits (aka cookies) every morning for their meetings. I have done this in my own classes and work – where I bring donuts or Halloween / Christmas / Valentine’s Day candy and chocolates to share with everyone.
Be sincere in your praise and acknowledgements. That’s common sense, right? Well, not always, which is sad to say. However, we are looking for more shows and experiences that are sincere in nature, and that is something to note as a change happening in the industry, as well as in society. We have to do this in and out of the classroom as well. Our reviews we give to each other for our research articles? Or feedback we give our students? Always putting in not just needed insights and recommendations, but do it with kindness. Whenever I grade or provide feedback – I always ask myself – how would I feel if I received this feedback? It’s another check that I think is necessary, especially today.
You will always have detractors – you just need to prove them wrong. I think Ted knew in the show that he was going to have a lot of people who would not believe in him as the new coach for Richmond FC, and they would be very vocal about it. They called him names, said he was crazy for taking a coaching position across the ocean in a sport he’s never coached before. A lot of people had a ton to say about it, and it could be overwhelming to experience that.
Yet, he did not let them sway him and his overall mission – and that’s a key thing to remember here. There was a saying in track and field my Dad would tell me about other athletes I was competing in, and how they would “try to beat you before the meet” with mental games and distractions. It’s important to know what these are, but to not let them overtake you and your mission. Plus, proving people wrong is very satisfying!
Attitude and outlook is crucial to have. When you see the show, you never see Ted in a bad mood when he’s on the field, or in the locker room – he keeps the piece, and leads by example. That’s what leaders do, and people watch and follow suit. That’s what we – professionals and professors – have. to recognize and remember as well. If we show we are stressed, our students will get stressed. If they see we are able to take action and handle situations, they will be able to do as well. This goes back to empathy – as mentioned in the next point – and being understanding in every situation and circumstance.
Understand others may be going through challenges. Empathy is so crucial to have, because there may be times where people are not showing to the world what they are dealing with. We have to be kind and understanding and most importantly – treat others how we want to be treated. Even in the show, Ted had his own challenges, as well as the other characters, but he always wanted to be there to support them.
In other words, I think we can all say we all need to spread a little more kindness, spend time being there for others, and leading by example. In other words, we all need to embrace a bit of Ted Lasso in our work and daily lives.
Have a great day!
Best Wishes,
